When Leadership Feels Heavy: Faithfulness in the Middle of It

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  by Bart Denny There are moments in ministry that feel full. Full of joy. Full of momentum. Full of visible fruit. And then there are moments that feel heavy. Not dramatic. Not headline-worthy. Just heavy. The kind of weight that comes from complicated situations, unclear facts, strained relationships, and decisions that don’t have easy answers. If you’ve led in the church for any length of time, you know this weight. It shows up when you’re trying to care for people who are hurting while also protecting the rest of the flock. It shows up when you’re holding pieces of a story, but not the whole picture. It shows up when you’re expected to lead with clarity in situations that feel anything but clear. And often, it shows up quietly. You still preach. You still smile. You still lead. But underneath, you’re carrying something heavy. The Reality We Don’t Always Talk About Spiritual leadership is not just about vision and teaching. It’s also about burden-b...
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A Dangerous Prayer

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Praying, "Your kingdom come" realigns everything!

by Bart Denny

When was the last time you had a moment that silenced the noise and clarified what really matters?

Maybe it came during a health scare, a late-night heart-to-heart, or a snowy Michigan road. In those moments, the trivial fades and the essential stands tall. And if we’re honest, we need those moments—not just in life but in our prayer life too.

Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6 to begin prayer not with ourselves, but with God: “Our Father… hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done.”

Let’s focus on just those three powerful words: “Your kingdom come.”

It’s more than a phrase. It’s a spiritual posture. It’s a dangerous prayer.

Praying “Your Kingdom Come” Means Yielding to God’s Rule In Us

We often pray for the world to change, but Jesus starts by calling for change within.

Luke 17:21 reminds us: “The kingdom of God is in your midst.” That means the kingdom begins when we surrender our hearts to the reign of Christ. Not just our Sunday mornings, but our marriages, finances, thoughts, habits, and hopes.

It’s like riding a tandem bicycle. We might let Jesus pedal, but we often refuse to hand over the handlebars. This prayer says, “Jesus, You steer. I’ll follow.”

Reflection: What kingdom are you building that competes with God's? What would it look like to give Jesus control this week?

Praying “Your Kingdom Come” Means Longing for God’s Reign Around Us

Jesus didn’t teach us to pray, “Your kingdom come… in my quiet time.” He said, “on earth as it is in heaven.”

This is a prayer of mission. We ask God to break into our communities, schools, workplaces, and families with His righteousness, justice, mercy, and truth. Like a mustard seed, the kingdom might start small—a prayer, a kind act, a faithful invitation—but it grows into something that transforms lives.

Reflection: What’s one way you can be salt and light in someone’s life this week?

Praying “Your Kingdom Come” Means Anticipating God’s Glory To Come

The kingdom is here—but not yet complete. And so we wait and pray, “Come, Lord Jesus” (Revelation 22:20).

Like a bride waiting for her groom, we live with expectation. We live in the tension of hope—knowing our King is returning to restore all things.

Reflection: Are your prayers shaped by eternity? Are you living today with your eyes on the coming glory?

A Challenge for the Week

Let this be your prayer each morning:
“Father, let Your kingdom come—in me, around me, and through me.”

Rework your prayer list—start with kingdom priorities, not just personal ones.
Pray for your “one”—that friend, neighbor, or loved one who needs Jesus.
And remember: revival doesn’t begin with a crowd. It begins with one surrendered heart.

Watch the full message here: https://youtu.be/L3Hz3i1XMKg

Explore more at Pathway – A Wesleyan Church: https://www.pathwaywes.org

About the Author
Dr. Bart Denny is the lead pastor of Pathway – A Wesleyan Church in Saranac, Michigan. A retired naval officer, educator, and passionate church revitalization leader, Bart holds multiple graduate degrees in theology and leadership. He writes and preaches to help everyday people find hope in Christ and live as kingdom-minded disciples.

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