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by Bart Denny Mother’s Day can land differently for each of us. For some, it brings warmth and gratitude. For others, it brings grief, regret, longing, or pain. So before we say anything else, we should say this clearly: we don’t need to pretend every family looks like a greeting card. We don’t need to pretend every home has always felt safe, healthy, or whole. That’s not real life. And it’s not the Bible either. The Bible gives us families with beauty and brokenness, promise and pain. And right there, in the middle of real life, God works. God doesn’t build faith in perfect homes. He builds faith by grace. He builds faith through ordinary people who show up, pray, teach, forgive, encourage, correct, comfort, and keep loving. Most of us can look back and see that our faith didn’t appear all at once. For many of us, faith came slowly. Maybe it came through a mother or grandmother. Maybe through a teacher, mentor, neighbor, pastor, or someone in the church who cared enough ...

  by Bart Denny A reflection on 1 Corinthians 12:12–27 (adapted from a sermon preached at Pathway Church in Saranac, Michigan on May 3 and available here ). Here's something I've never quite admitted out loud. There have been moments in my life — in ministry, even — where I quietly wondered if I actually mattered. Not in a dramatic, crisis-of-faith kind of way. It was subtler than that. I'd look around and think, Someone else could do this better than me. Maybe I'm not really that necessary here. I wouldn't have said it out loud. But the thought was there — that quiet assumption that if I stayed on the edges, if I didn't fully engage, everything would probably still be fine. Someone more gifted would pick it up. Someone more visible would carry it. I could just… hang back. And if I'm honest, most of the time that didn't come from laziness. It came from comparison. From not being sure that what I brought really made much of a difference. From finding it e...

by Bart Denny Just like LEGO bricks are designed to connect, God created us to be connected—to Him and to one another. A LEGO brick sitting by itself may be colorful, useful, and well-designed, but it was made for connection . It was made to become part of something larger than itself. And so were we. In 1 Peter 2:4–10, the Apostle Peter gives us a powerful picture of what God is doing in the lives of His people. He does not describe Christians as isolated individuals trying to hold everything together on their own. He describes us as “living stones” being built together into a spiritual house . That matters, because many of us know what it feels like to try to carry life alone. We take on more than we should. We say yes when we need to say no. We carry responsibilities, burdens, worries, and struggles that were never meant to rest on our shoulders alone. And if we are not careful, we can even start treating the Christian life that way. We may say we believe in Jesus, but quietly we be...

by Bart Denny Every now and then, I find myself wondering about the roads not taken . What if I had finished college sooner? What if I had become a naval officer earlier? What if I had entered ministry at a younger age? What if I had attended a traditional residential seminary? What if I had stayed in the Navy longer? I suspect most people eventually ask some version of those questions. What if? We compare the life we actually lived with the life we imagined. We think about opportunities that never materialized, plans that changed, mistakes we made, and doors that never opened. For much of my life, I carried a persistent feeling that I was behind schedule. I completed my bachelor's degree later than I had hoped. I became a naval officer later than I had hoped. I entered ministry later than many pastors. Even my graduate education followed a winding path. Once I finally took the plunge, one master's degree led to another. Then another. Eventually, I e...

Part 2 of the “Created to Connect” Series Ephesians 2:1–10 by Bart Denny When Life Won’t Click Together Have you ever stepped on a LEGO in the dark? You don’t forget it. But here’s something else about LEGO bricks—they’re not meant to exist by themselves. A single piece might look fine sitting on a table… but it doesn’t fulfill its purpose until it connects. That’s the idea behind this series: God didn’t create you to live disconnected. He created you to connect—to Him and to one another. Last week, we saw that clearly in the words of Jesus: “I am the vine; you are the branches…” (John 15:5, NIV) Life only works when we stay connected to Him. But that raises an honest question: If we were created to connect… why do we feel so disconnected? Why does it feel like we’re trying—but something just won’t come together? When Trying Harder Doesn’t Work If you’re honest, you’ve probably felt this. You know the right things. You’re doing the right things. From...