God’s Image, My Irritation: Learning to Love the People Who Frustrate Me

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  by Bart Denny I believe every human being is created in the image of God—the imago Dei . Genesis tells us, “God created mankind in his own image” (Genesis 1:27). That declaration comes before differences in nationality, politics, occupation, social standing, education, religious affiliation, or usefulness to society. People have worth because God made them. Their value isn’t something the government grants, the culture recognizes, or actions and opinions I personally approve of. I believe all of that. The harder question is whether anyone could tell I believe it by the way I treat people who frustrate me. James confronts this inconsistency with uncomfortable directness: “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness” (James 3:9). That verse doesn’t allow me to separate my theology from my tone. I can’t praise the God whose image a person bears while casually belittling, mocking, or dehumanizing that person...
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How Can a Church Grow? (Part 2)

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Five Spiritual Practices That Fuel a Thriving Church

by Bart Denny

In a previous post, we asked a critical question: How can a church grow?

It’s a timely question—because while many churches are in decline, growth is still possible. Not through gimmicks or polished programs, but by cultivating the same spiritual conditions that fueled the church in Acts 2.

When the Holy Spirit came at Pentecost, the early church exploded. In one day, 3,000 people came to faith. And Acts 2:47 tells us, “The Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.”

So what were they doing that made their growth so vibrant, sustainable, and Spirit-filled?

It wasn’t a silver bullet—it was spiritual soil.

Here are three more growth-producing practices from Acts 2:37–47.

We Grow When We Love Each Other Deeply

The believers in Acts didn’t just gather—they bonded. Acts 2:44–45 says, “All the believers were together and had everything in common… they gave to anyone who had need.”

This was more than friendliness—it was sacrificial, open-handed love. And it was magnetic.

Like a well in the outback, that kind of love draws people in and keeps them close.

When love flows like that at church—through meals, presence, generosity, and hospitality—people find Jesus in the way they’re treated, not just the words they hear.

We Grow When We Depend on Prayer Continually

Acts 2:42 says the church “devoted themselves… to prayer.” That word “devoted” means to persist—to cling and not let go.

Prayer wasn’t an accessory. It was the engine.

And the results? Every major move of God in Acts was preceded by prayer (Acts 4:31, Acts 13:2).

Corporate prayer mattered. United prayer mattered.

And if we want God to move at Pathway—or in any church—we must raise our sails and catch the wind of the Spirit through prayer.

No prayer? No power.

We Grow When We Give Sacrificially to the Mission

In verse 45, we’re told the early Christians “sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.”

This wasn’t charity. It was worship.

They didn’t treat their stuff as sacred. They treated the mission of Jesus as sacred.

Sacrificial giving isn’t just financial. It’s giving up comfort, preferences, time, and energy—whatever it takes to help others know Christ.

Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can give up… is what we like best.

What’s Your Next Step?

Churches grow when people grow. So what’s one step you can take this week?

  • Love someone tangibly
  • Join in corporate prayer
  • Open your hands to give more freely
  • Invite someone far from God to walk with you
  • Sacrifice a preference to reach a soul

No church grows by accident. But if we each plant seeds in the soil God blesses—He brings the harvest.

About the Author

Dr. Bart L. Denny is the lead pastor of Pathway—A Wesleyan Church in Saranac, Michigan. A former U.S. Navy officer and Christian leadership instructor, he writes about faith, leadership, and the church’s mission. Read more at Bart’s Blog.

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