When Leadership Feels Heavy: Faithfulness in the Middle of It

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  by Bart Denny There are moments in ministry that feel full. Full of joy. Full of momentum. Full of visible fruit. And then there are moments that feel heavy. Not dramatic. Not headline-worthy. Just heavy. The kind of weight that comes from complicated situations, unclear facts, strained relationships, and decisions that don’t have easy answers. If you’ve led in the church for any length of time, you know this weight. It shows up when you’re trying to care for people who are hurting while also protecting the rest of the flock. It shows up when you’re holding pieces of a story, but not the whole picture. It shows up when you’re expected to lead with clarity in situations that feel anything but clear. And often, it shows up quietly. You still preach. You still smile. You still lead. But underneath, you’re carrying something heavy. The Reality We Don’t Always Talk About Spiritual leadership is not just about vision and teaching. It’s also about burden-b...
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Tactical Patience: A Church Replanter's Greatest Asset

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I spend a great deal of time studying church replanting, and, for me, it’s more than academic interest. No, I haven’t replanted multiple churches (just one), but I am hooked. It’s exciting to see God bring renewal and growth, opening a new chapter in the life of a local church that may have feared there was no hope for its future. One aspect of church replanting that particularly interests me is the characteristics that make a successful replanting pastor. One trait that comes up over and over again is patience—tactical patience. If delayed gratification is not your thing, being a church replanting pastor is probably not for you.

As Bob Bickford and Mark Hallock write, “progress and pace are unique are unique in church replanting. Some things can be addressed immediately; others have to wait—either for the congregation to be ready to move or for the resources to be present.”[1]Tactical patience requires knowing when to change something and when not to change it. Tactical patience recognizes that some hills aren’t worth dying on. As Mark Clifton observes, a church may need facility modernizations, a new website, updated bylaws, and a host of other changes. However, changing everything at once is not only impossible, it is inadvisable. Says Clifton, “A replanter must realize that this is not a short-term mission trip; this is his life.”[2]

Church planting—the founding of new churches—is a vital ministry and can have some intersection with church replanting. However, the church replanter should be careful not to get into the business of comparing his church with that of a planter because the pace is entirely different. A church plant that does not gain traction within the first three years probably won’t make it. However, it takes a church replanter an average of four or five years before he feels like he’s even gaining attraction. The church replanter cannot become discouraged when it takes a long time to get the church moving—because it’s going to take a long time, maybe even a really long time.

I’ve heard that we often overestimate what we can do in a year and underestimate what we can accomplish in five or ten years. The tactically patient church replanter must always keep the long view.

 

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[1] Bob Bickford and Mark Hallock, Am I a Replanter?: 30 Days of Discerning God's Call. Littleton, CO: Acoma Press, 2017.

[2] Mark Clifton, Reclaiming Glory: Creating a Gospel Legacy throughout North America. Nashville, TN: B&H Publishing Group, 2016.

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